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What is it Like to Live With a Sex Addict From a Partner’s Perspective?

By Caralee Frederic, LCSW | Certified Gottman Therapist | Couples Workshop Presenter
Partners living with a sex addicts often describe:

  • Feelings of intense loneliness, distancing, confusion, deep hurt, and even betrayal.

  • A sense of being disconnected, reaching and never being able to arrive at the heart of his or her spouse.

  • A deep sense of rejection which often seeds feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

  • Repeated attempts to adapt to what he/she thinks the addicted spouse needs.

  • Failure to achieve a sense of oneness or intimacy.

  • Exacerbated confusion.

  • A sense of hopelessness.

  • Anger from his or her own unmet needs.

  • Shame, low self-esteem, depression, and anxiety.

Sometimes, a partner may develop a reactive form of Intimacy Anorexia in response to the damage incurred by the addicted spouse.

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Caralee Hammer Frederic, LCSW
Caralee Hammer Frederic, LCSW, is an Advanced Clinical Gottman Trainer and Certified Gottman Therapist. She mentors counselors, clergy, and EAP providers through the Gottman certification process. She also specializes in trauma, behavioral and substance-related compulsions, and Couples On The Brink counseling.
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Caralee Hammer Frederic, LCSW
Caralee Hammer Frederic, LCSW, is an Advanced Clinical Gottman Trainer and Certified Gottman Therapist. She mentors counselors, clergy, and EAP providers through the Gottman certification process. She also specializes in trauma, behavioral and substance-related compulsions, and Couples On The Brink counseling.