Many therapists want to move quickly toward certification. Yet those who are most successful in sessions are often the most intentional — combining training, mentoring, consultation, and practice to build confidence and clinical excellence. One of the most common questions I hear from therapists is,
A quiet “I’m sorry” or a simple “Can we try again?” can sometimes change the direction of a conflict. Yet in many couples, even sincere repair attempts are rejected or misunderstood. Understanding why repair fails — and how therapists can help it succeed — can
Many people assume the structure of the Gottman Method limits emotional connection. In practice, it often does the opposite — creating the safety couples need to speak honestly, stay engaged, and make real progress together. Occasionally I hear therapists or couples wonder whether the Gottman
Why Distinguishing High Conflict From Abuse Is Critical Many couples and therapists use the term “high conflict” interchangeably with abuse — but these are very different dynamics with very different clinical implications. Mislabeling conflict as abuse (or vice versa) can lead to ineffective treatment, unsafe
By Caralee Frederic, LCSW Gottman Therapist Presenter & Trainer Unlock Your Brain’s Potential As therapists, we all want the same thing: to give our clients the very best care. And that starts with how we learn. The Gottman Method is one of the most respected,
Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST The Dual Control Model, as famously discussed by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. in Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, is a great way to understand how you might find more of your desire. If
Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST The Dual Control Model, as famously discussed by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., in her book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, is a great way to understand how you might find more of your
Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is the author of the incredible book Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life. I highly recommend you go out and buy it immediately! But until then, here is a brief
How does The Gottman Method work in couples counseling? Case Study 1 Empty Nesters This particular couple had many strengths in their relationship and it was a fun delight to congratulate them on how well they had done over the years in building a happy
I always knew I wanted to one day go into private practice, from the start of my career as a therapist. The independence, the opportunity for creativity, the chance to make my own schedule. When the time came to make that plunge from working in
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By Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST Aftercare is one of the most important parts of a healthy sexual relationship. It is one of the main drivers in satisfaction and offers a lot of connection in a very intimate and vulnerable space. Aftercare is the time right
By Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST I often hear from women that it is difficult to get in the mood for sex. While there are certainly external things you or your partner can do to help, a bit part of it is your own mindset. Your
By Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST I was listening to a video of an exotic dancer talking about her career while doing a workout today, as one does, and the age-old question of “is going to a strip club cheating?” came up. The comment section was
By Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST Here are some questions to ask your partner to help strengthen your bond. These are questions I often ask individuals and/or couples to understand more about dynamics in the relationship. The answers are revealing. I cheated a little and have
By Amanda Liñan LCSW, CST Romance is a completely subjective experience. I like to explain it as love that is shown through voice or action. When I talk with couples about romance and what is “romantic” to them, people are often stumped at first and
